Thinking of returning work on a full time basis… confused and more confused.. Felt that my kids don’t really need me to be there all the time, like now Kyla is at school and the two younger ones are playing happily by themselves. I find myself reduntant especially at times like these.. I find that i am not providing value add when I give up my job to stay with them 24 by 7.. They actually “chased” me out of the room whenever I peeped to see what are they playing at.. I am more like a caregiver. Cooking them meals, bathing them, bringing them to school etc. Occassionally a hug here and there but even Elkan is growing out of the cuddly phase. He is too impatient when I tried to hug him just a second longer than desired ( by him!) He will wriggle away to play with the sisters..
So should I or should I not?
